10 sex positions to try if your guy isn't well endowed
Sometimes good things come in small packages too
You’re crazy-in-love your guy, but his penis? Not so much. Not that you’re superficial, but he’s not exactly blessed in that department, and to you – like many women – size matters.
That’s not to say that sex with your man isn’t good. But you know it can be better. What’s a girl to do? Rather than wish for his penis to grow a little longer or thicker overnight (you know that’s not going to happen!), try these positions, which will help him make the most of what he’s got. Remember, it’s not about how big it is – it’s what he does with it!
1. The hound-dog
This is a slight modification of the doggy position. In this position, you simply get on all fours, but instead of keeping your back level as you would if doing the doggy, lower yourself onto your arms and arch your back.
Then, when your guy penetrates you from behind, push your buttocks towards him to help him get as deep as possible inside of you. This position works because it lets him enter you at an angle, thereby allowing the head of his penis to stimulate your G-spot, which is located on the inner front wall of your vagina.
2. X marks the spot
Lie on top of your man so that you are facing his feet. Your genitals should be touching each other’s. Now lift your buttocks up and allow him to penetrate you. Slowly ride him, moving your hips up and down.
This position gives your guy a great view of your butt, and, more importantly, lets him penetrate you deeply and allows his shaft to come into contact with your clitoris.
3. Spread-eagled
This is another position that allows for deep penetration. Lie on your back and have your partner kneel in front of you. Lift your legs as high as you can and spread them wide apart. Now get your guy to enter you. He should hold onto your knees or thighs, which will enable him to hold your legs up and apart. In this position, he is free to thrust as fast and deep as he wants, while you lay back and relax.
You should feel the head of his penis hit your G-spot and the base of his shaft rub up against your clitoris – if not, adjust your hips a little until your lower body is at the perfect angle.
4. Rest and press
Lie on your back. Get your man to kneel in front of you and enter you from this stance. Now bend your knees and rest your feet against his chest. He can hold onto your ankles or knees if he wants. From here he is free to thrust as fast and hard as he wants, but be sure to keep your feet pressed firmly against his chest while he is moving in and out of you.
This position allows his shaft to enter you deeply, but because your legs are also pressed against your man’s torso, you maximise the friction between his penis and your clitoris.
5. Woman on top
Most women love this position, and for good reason – it lets them feel the entire length of their guy’s penis, plus, it allows their clitoris to touch the base of the penis. To pull off this position successfully, get on top of your guy and insert his penis into your vagina.
Now allow yourself to “sink” down into him. Next, “ride” him like a cowgirl, moving up and down and bucking your hips back and forth. You can also “grind” yourself down onto him so that your clitoris rubs against his shaft – this will maximise your pleasure as well as his.
6. Reverse cowgirl
This is similar to the Woman On Top position, except you have to turn your body around so that you’re facing your man’s feet. Like the Woman On Top, your goal is to ride your man and grind yourself down onto him.
The extra highlight of this position, though, is that, because his penis is at an angle, you’re more likely to feel the tip push up against your G-spot while you move up and down on him.
7. The slide
Get your man to lie on his back. Now get on top of him, inserting his penis into your vagina before slowly lowering your body so that you’re lying on top of him. Press your legs tightly together.
While your guy is inside you, slide your body up and down, making sure that your clitoris rubs against the base of his penis. In this position, his penis will feel nice and snug inside you.
8. The butterfly
Find a spot on the edge of the bed and lie on your back, making sure that your butt is right at the edge. Get your man to stand by the side of the bed, facing you. Raise your legs and lift your buttocks off the bed.
Raising your pelvis as high as you can, drape your legs over your guy’s shoulders. Ask your man to support your butt cheeks with his hands and enter you. From this position, you may wish to gyrate your hips to create deeper stimulation. Press your thighs tightly together to increase contact between your clitoris and your man’s penis.
9. The tight doggy
Assume the traditional doggy position, but instead of your man placing his legs in between yours, adjust yourselves so that your legs are pressed closely together and positioned between his.
Your guy should spread his legs wide apart so that they are resting outside of yours. This position creates a tight fit, increasing those pleasurable sensations for the both of you. It also creates deeper penetration than the standard doggy position.
10. The sexy spoon
Ask your partner to spoon you (you should both lie on your sides so that your back is pressed against your partner’s chest). Now pull your legs up towards your chest and get your guy to pull his legs up too, so that they’re aligned with yours.
From this position he should be able to enter you easily. This position is not only super-intimate; it also narrows your vaginal canal, allowing for a tighter fit.